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泰德（乔什·拉德诺 Josh Radnor 饰）终于鼓起勇气向女友斯黛拉求婚，斯黛拉欣喜答应，二人自此沉浸在订婚的幸福之中。泰德寻寻觅觅多年的真命天女是否就是斯黛拉？马修（杰森·席格尔 Jason Segel 饰）一直以来的梦想是做一名环境保护律师，然而梦想与现实的距离越来越远，他为了养家糊口，决定供职于曾经一度看不起的巨人国家银行。他的妻子莉莉（艾丽森·汉妮根 Alyson Hannigan 饰）一开始不理解他，后来选择支持他。 另一方面，从来不对女人付出真感情的巴尼（尼尔·帕特里克·哈里斯 Neil Patrick Harris 饰），发现自己竟然爱上了好朋友罗宾（寇碧·史莫德斯 Cobie Smulders 饰）。在莉莉的支招下，他向罗宾发起了攻势。罗宾渐渐地发现，自己也对花花公子巴尼产生了微妙的感情。
长篇影评
1 ) 200人斩
Barney，抿嘴笑了，
200人斩，华丽的数据。
苍白的数据。
他依然只是像飞机在跑道上滑行。
不飞上蓝天，他只是怪模怪样的汽车而已。
而Robin就是他翅膀，
有了她，他才能拥抱白云，
触摸蓝天。
谁是我的翅膀？或是……
我先来个20人斩愉悦一下自己，
在跑道上飙一下车~~~
200人斩，华丽的数据。
苍白的数据。
他依然只是像飞机在跑道上滑行。
不飞上蓝天，他只是怪模怪样的汽车而已。
而Robin就是他翅膀，
有了她，他才能拥抱白云，
触摸蓝天。
谁是我的翅膀？或是……
我先来个20人斩愉悦一下自己，
在跑道上飙一下车~~~
2 ) 重点剧情一览
01 T&S订婚，M成为无业游民，无所事事。B明显开始对R有好感，非常的矛盾，于是先将这个消息告诉L。M觉得T和S发展有些过于迅速。L开始帮助B追R，B给R打电话，各种紧张。M&T开始测试S是否和T合拍，R觉得B有些不对，开始试探他。R完全没有理解B的良苦用心，还帮他把妹。
02 M一直找不到工作，逐渐灰心。M向大家说起无比美味汉堡包的故事。M的自尊心变得越来越小，大家都很发愁。最终大家找到了那个最好吃的汉堡，M也终于找到了自己的位置。
03 B想泡到一位女同，T发觉自己错过了很多事，R找到了新的工作，终于摆脱了无聊的播音工作。大家对于新泽西都有些厌恶，S可能会让T当他们结婚后留在新泽西，T极度不爽。R并没有得到新工作，而只是得到试镜，十分紧张。S正面告诉T不会搬到纽约，两人因此吵架。M大爆发，大赞新泽西。狂骂纽约。T深思熟虑之后，决定结婚后搬到新泽西。R最终得到的工作是驻外记者，要去日本。
04 B用科幻法泡妞。T和M&L均要搬家，大家都充满了回忆，而R则不以为然。大家都开始回忆旧公寓的故事。大家都建议T不要和S结婚，T突然猛醒到自己还没有做好当继父的准备，又不想搬了。最后M&L和R收到感染，也不想搬了。但T最终意识到每个人都将变老，大家都要迎接新生活。建议大家走出这变化的第一步。
05 T&S发誓要超过S妹妹梦想中的婚礼，S的妹妹完全就是另一个S，没有自己的特点。T想请R去参加他们的婚礼，R开始在日本进行新的工作，超级搞笑。B一心想和R在一起，S对于R的出席十分介怀。S的女儿和爸爸在一起，没有参加婚礼，T前去劝说，竟然邀请他前去婚礼，R也同时出现，这让S崩溃了。R说出了自己的心里话，希望T不要结婚，这不是真正的T。R主动找B倾诉，结果B失去了绝佳的机会。S其实也放不下前夫，选择逃婚，就这样两人的婚礼取消了。
06 T&S分手，完全不处理自己的情绪，像个没事人似的。T只是想永远不见S，可是恰好就碰见了。大家还是希望T发泄出来，但是其实每个人都有不愿意面对的人。T最终坚定信念要找S把事情说清楚，但看到S和前夫女儿幸福的模样，他突然不再气愤，S做的决定是正确的，T选择放手。
07 B突然对辣妹失去了兴趣，原来是拉拉队效应作怪。B告诉大家他要成为父亲了，十分心慌，M&L遭遇了婴儿热，十分想要孩子。但是R因为失业现在住在他们的公寓，有些不便。B最终没有成为父亲，十分开心。L开始考虑现在是否合适要孩子，T&R就这件事开始辩论。R最终住到了T家。最终M&L决定不要孩子。
08 R失业，开始无所事事，而且开始十分珍惜和L的友情，L要带R见她的一位好朋友。B帮T接到一个重大的项目，更重要的是，M&B&T三人可以在一起工作。R&L一起去见的这位朋友很咋呼。T没有得到重大项目，很沮丧，真相是B因一己之私从中作梗。R不想当M&L的电灯泡，和咋呼女在一起玩，L也想融入其中，结果没有效果。B最终良心发现，T最终得到了项目。
09 T又认识了一位女子V。R居然吃了“裸男方案”的圈套，M说R目光短浅，只注重身体。M认为做爱的唯一理由就是爱，大家都不同意，有很多原因可以发生这种事。B&T都想试试裸男方案到底奏不奏效。
10 所有人都很同情T被甩，T有些受不了了。酒吧酒保有暴力倾向，让大家都很小心，酒保让大家去打架，大家开始就打架的缘由展开讨论。T突然意识到自己没有打过架，所以想去打这一架。B发现R喜欢爱打架的男生，结果也愿意去打架。结果酒保一人摆平，但他认为三人都有份，两人于是假装真的打过架去向大家炫耀。结果B&T被指控人身伤害，M为了教育他们，故意说会有牢狱之灾。最终大家都明白了打架不是好事。
11 T的妹妹H要来纽约，T十分苦恼，B早就对H垂涎三尺，T不让B见她。M带R去一家具有家乡风格的酒吧，R喜欢那样的气氛。H想在纽约工作，B给了她工作机会。M告诉R酒吧只接受自己家乡的人，R佯装是M老乡，L到了圣诞节完全藏不住秘密，向T告诉B&H激情接触，结果他们俩告诉T他们只是演戏。T最终认清H已经成熟。M最终为R找到了一处加拿大酒吧，R十分感动，还唱R偶像歌曲。
12 T&R互为室友有些不顺利，两人认为男女要和睦相处必须要有性才行，恰好被M看见，M没有自己看杂志的地方，就在T&R的公寓。L提醒他们这样做是不对的，一定会有一方会受伤。B知道后很难受，各种发泄。T&R终于发现做爱计划终于出现了问题，貌似又有了做回情侣时的习惯，两人认为不要继续下去。B全力阻止T&R有可能激情接触的可能，T发现B喜欢R。M决定打破上厕所看杂志的障碍，这对B有了启发，B表白，R完全没注意，好感伤。
13 B一直在教T泡妞技巧，两人成功把到两个女生。暴风雪来到，B&T当了一天酒吧老板，玩儿得很尽兴。M&L因为爱情时间长久而变得对于以前的浪漫失去了兴趣，R却对爱情小习惯不以为然。最终M&L因为彼此相爱没有放弃这些习惯。
14 R去面试，被嘲笑，面试状态也十分差，并且工作签证到期，如果不在七天内找到工作，便会遣返回加拿大。B的面试视频十分夸张，R决定让B帮助她。结果R去应聘幸运球女孩竟然都被嘲笑，结果B竟然能帮助R获得了好的工作。
15 大家发现B最近的行为有些奇怪，大家开始怀疑B有了真正的女朋友，结果大家发现B竟然有妻儿，大家完全震惊了。B解释说这完全是为了当时病重的母亲，于是顾了临时演员扮演他的妻儿。假妻子和T相谈甚欢，R和假儿子相谈甚欢。大家都认为B应该向母亲坦白，L向M坦白自己不喜欢他的母亲。T竟然和假妻子接吻，B&T借此继续演戏。B向母亲坦白，母亲完全接受，并告诉B应该为爱主动争取。
16 T的前女友K来纽约，M&L十分不喜欢她。T居然又找K，大家都很气愤。结果T和H鬼混期间竟然成了小三。M&L&B在讲述没有裤子事件。结果最终T&K都把自己的事情搞清楚，两人继续在一起。
17 大家对于K已经无语了。R希望大家能看看他主播的早间节目，K&T再次分手。B的睡衣都是西装的样子，M的睡衣有点像裙子，很搞笑。T开始怀疑大家使计让K和T分手，结果确实是L使计。R的早间节目很搞笑，但是大家都因为讨论K而没有看。L为了T使计了很多次，包括和R，但都是为了T好，但T非常生气，知道他认清了友情的重要，最终还是原谅了L。
18 T为了巨人银行方案一直努力。大家在讨论和明星约会的轶事，R透露她曾经和一位明星有过交往。T听说巨人银行方案取消，才知道大家编了善意的谎言。T最终辞职，决定自己开公司，不受别人的支配。
19 B玩儿镭射射击游戏最近经常伤人，最终被赶出来。T认为人到了一定的年纪有些事情就不能做了。M开始在L的幼儿园做篮球教练兼职，他的教学方式让L很汗颜。B&R准备推翻T的意见，T&B开始打赌。M&L就竞争展开讨论。
20 L听到了B讲的一个笑话后立刻生气，消失了四周。T开始自己办公司，非常的紧张。M为了不想被解雇开始想绝招。T开公司请了一位助理帮助他无所事事，助理竟然和R亲密接触，B十分生气。助理和R开始亲昵，R&T都受不了了。M帮助B将助理支走。R鼓励T一定能够成功。
21 B阐述他的“三天理论”，T开始和新女友交往，如胶似漆。R提醒他这只是虚假的，结果这一切都是M&B从中作梗。大家开始分析T陷入热恋时的情况。T最终知晓了真相(M&B这集太腐了。)，也想故技重施，欺骗B&M说自己对好朋友有同性幻想。两人就T对谁有同性幻想开始吵架。
22 T接到公司的第一个活，自己十分不待见这个活，但又必须做，十分痛苦。T开始讲述遇见的奇迹是如何发生的。R做节目的时候吐了，结果是食物中毒。B开始炫耀自己的风流史，M沉迷于图表统计。正是因为这些事，发生蝴蝶效应，T遇见了前女友S。
23 T面对S假装非常淡定，除了R大家觉得T做得很好。S的丈夫突然出现在T面前，说些十分同情T的话，想对他做些补偿，想让他到哥伦比亚大学当建筑学教授，T一口回绝。结果又让T设计一所新楼房，但是主人让T觉得他是杀人狂，十分担心。
最终T回绝了S丈夫的帮助。B发誓要欺骗警察一次，S和丈夫分手，希望T能够帮助S挽回她的丈夫，T答应了，因为他想S幸福。S鼓励T，他一定会幸福。L回归。
24 T开始设计自己的第一件作品，牛仔帽房子。T鼓励B向R表白，M再次组织T的生日聚会，R首先向B表白，出乎B的意料，但是B居然拒绝了。T和山羊开始较劲，R其实早先知道B喜欢她，让R很困扰，所以自己先下手为强，先表白，让B退缩。B&R开始真实的面对彼此。T的设计再次黄了，L建议T问问自己是否该换个方向。大家都意识到了生活的勇气是多么重要。T转行当大学老师。
02 M一直找不到工作，逐渐灰心。M向大家说起无比美味汉堡包的故事。M的自尊心变得越来越小，大家都很发愁。最终大家找到了那个最好吃的汉堡，M也终于找到了自己的位置。
03 B想泡到一位女同，T发觉自己错过了很多事，R找到了新的工作，终于摆脱了无聊的播音工作。大家对于新泽西都有些厌恶，S可能会让T当他们结婚后留在新泽西，T极度不爽。R并没有得到新工作，而只是得到试镜，十分紧张。S正面告诉T不会搬到纽约，两人因此吵架。M大爆发，大赞新泽西。狂骂纽约。T深思熟虑之后，决定结婚后搬到新泽西。R最终得到的工作是驻外记者，要去日本。
04 B用科幻法泡妞。T和M&L均要搬家，大家都充满了回忆，而R则不以为然。大家都开始回忆旧公寓的故事。大家都建议T不要和S结婚，T突然猛醒到自己还没有做好当继父的准备，又不想搬了。最后M&L和R收到感染，也不想搬了。但T最终意识到每个人都将变老，大家都要迎接新生活。建议大家走出这变化的第一步。
05 T&S发誓要超过S妹妹梦想中的婚礼，S的妹妹完全就是另一个S，没有自己的特点。T想请R去参加他们的婚礼，R开始在日本进行新的工作，超级搞笑。B一心想和R在一起，S对于R的出席十分介怀。S的女儿和爸爸在一起，没有参加婚礼，T前去劝说，竟然邀请他前去婚礼，R也同时出现，这让S崩溃了。R说出了自己的心里话，希望T不要结婚，这不是真正的T。R主动找B倾诉，结果B失去了绝佳的机会。S其实也放不下前夫，选择逃婚，就这样两人的婚礼取消了。
06 T&S分手，完全不处理自己的情绪，像个没事人似的。T只是想永远不见S，可是恰好就碰见了。大家还是希望T发泄出来，但是其实每个人都有不愿意面对的人。T最终坚定信念要找S把事情说清楚，但看到S和前夫女儿幸福的模样，他突然不再气愤，S做的决定是正确的，T选择放手。
07 B突然对辣妹失去了兴趣，原来是拉拉队效应作怪。B告诉大家他要成为父亲了，十分心慌，M&L遭遇了婴儿热，十分想要孩子。但是R因为失业现在住在他们的公寓，有些不便。B最终没有成为父亲，十分开心。L开始考虑现在是否合适要孩子，T&R就这件事开始辩论。R最终住到了T家。最终M&L决定不要孩子。
08 R失业，开始无所事事，而且开始十分珍惜和L的友情，L要带R见她的一位好朋友。B帮T接到一个重大的项目，更重要的是，M&B&T三人可以在一起工作。R&L一起去见的这位朋友很咋呼。T没有得到重大项目，很沮丧，真相是B因一己之私从中作梗。R不想当M&L的电灯泡，和咋呼女在一起玩，L也想融入其中，结果没有效果。B最终良心发现，T最终得到了项目。
09 T又认识了一位女子V。R居然吃了“裸男方案”的圈套，M说R目光短浅，只注重身体。M认为做爱的唯一理由就是爱，大家都不同意，有很多原因可以发生这种事。B&T都想试试裸男方案到底奏不奏效。
10 所有人都很同情T被甩，T有些受不了了。酒吧酒保有暴力倾向，让大家都很小心，酒保让大家去打架，大家开始就打架的缘由展开讨论。T突然意识到自己没有打过架，所以想去打这一架。B发现R喜欢爱打架的男生，结果也愿意去打架。结果酒保一人摆平，但他认为三人都有份，两人于是假装真的打过架去向大家炫耀。结果B&T被指控人身伤害，M为了教育他们，故意说会有牢狱之灾。最终大家都明白了打架不是好事。
11 T的妹妹H要来纽约，T十分苦恼，B早就对H垂涎三尺，T不让B见她。M带R去一家具有家乡风格的酒吧，R喜欢那样的气氛。H想在纽约工作，B给了她工作机会。M告诉R酒吧只接受自己家乡的人，R佯装是M老乡，L到了圣诞节完全藏不住秘密，向T告诉B&H激情接触，结果他们俩告诉T他们只是演戏。T最终认清H已经成熟。M最终为R找到了一处加拿大酒吧，R十分感动，还唱R偶像歌曲。
12 T&R互为室友有些不顺利，两人认为男女要和睦相处必须要有性才行，恰好被M看见，M没有自己看杂志的地方，就在T&R的公寓。L提醒他们这样做是不对的，一定会有一方会受伤。B知道后很难受，各种发泄。T&R终于发现做爱计划终于出现了问题，貌似又有了做回情侣时的习惯，两人认为不要继续下去。B全力阻止T&R有可能激情接触的可能，T发现B喜欢R。M决定打破上厕所看杂志的障碍，这对B有了启发，B表白，R完全没注意，好感伤。
13 B一直在教T泡妞技巧，两人成功把到两个女生。暴风雪来到，B&T当了一天酒吧老板，玩儿得很尽兴。M&L因为爱情时间长久而变得对于以前的浪漫失去了兴趣，R却对爱情小习惯不以为然。最终M&L因为彼此相爱没有放弃这些习惯。
14 R去面试，被嘲笑，面试状态也十分差，并且工作签证到期，如果不在七天内找到工作，便会遣返回加拿大。B的面试视频十分夸张，R决定让B帮助她。结果R去应聘幸运球女孩竟然都被嘲笑，结果B竟然能帮助R获得了好的工作。
15 大家发现B最近的行为有些奇怪，大家开始怀疑B有了真正的女朋友，结果大家发现B竟然有妻儿，大家完全震惊了。B解释说这完全是为了当时病重的母亲，于是顾了临时演员扮演他的妻儿。假妻子和T相谈甚欢，R和假儿子相谈甚欢。大家都认为B应该向母亲坦白，L向M坦白自己不喜欢他的母亲。T竟然和假妻子接吻，B&T借此继续演戏。B向母亲坦白，母亲完全接受，并告诉B应该为爱主动争取。
16 T的前女友K来纽约，M&L十分不喜欢她。T居然又找K，大家都很气愤。结果T和H鬼混期间竟然成了小三。M&L&B在讲述没有裤子事件。结果最终T&K都把自己的事情搞清楚，两人继续在一起。
17 大家对于K已经无语了。R希望大家能看看他主播的早间节目，K&T再次分手。B的睡衣都是西装的样子，M的睡衣有点像裙子，很搞笑。T开始怀疑大家使计让K和T分手，结果确实是L使计。R的早间节目很搞笑，但是大家都因为讨论K而没有看。L为了T使计了很多次，包括和R，但都是为了T好，但T非常生气，知道他认清了友情的重要，最终还是原谅了L。
18 T为了巨人银行方案一直努力。大家在讨论和明星约会的轶事，R透露她曾经和一位明星有过交往。T听说巨人银行方案取消，才知道大家编了善意的谎言。T最终辞职，决定自己开公司，不受别人的支配。
19 B玩儿镭射射击游戏最近经常伤人，最终被赶出来。T认为人到了一定的年纪有些事情就不能做了。M开始在L的幼儿园做篮球教练兼职，他的教学方式让L很汗颜。B&R准备推翻T的意见，T&B开始打赌。M&L就竞争展开讨论。
20 L听到了B讲的一个笑话后立刻生气，消失了四周。T开始自己办公司，非常的紧张。M为了不想被解雇开始想绝招。T开公司请了一位助理帮助他无所事事，助理竟然和R亲密接触，B十分生气。助理和R开始亲昵，R&T都受不了了。M帮助B将助理支走。R鼓励T一定能够成功。
21 B阐述他的“三天理论”，T开始和新女友交往，如胶似漆。R提醒他这只是虚假的，结果这一切都是M&B从中作梗。大家开始分析T陷入热恋时的情况。T最终知晓了真相(M&B这集太腐了。)，也想故技重施，欺骗B&M说自己对好朋友有同性幻想。两人就T对谁有同性幻想开始吵架。
22 T接到公司的第一个活，自己十分不待见这个活，但又必须做，十分痛苦。T开始讲述遇见的奇迹是如何发生的。R做节目的时候吐了，结果是食物中毒。B开始炫耀自己的风流史，M沉迷于图表统计。正是因为这些事，发生蝴蝶效应，T遇见了前女友S。
23 T面对S假装非常淡定，除了R大家觉得T做得很好。S的丈夫突然出现在T面前，说些十分同情T的话，想对他做些补偿，想让他到哥伦比亚大学当建筑学教授，T一口回绝。结果又让T设计一所新楼房，但是主人让T觉得他是杀人狂，十分担心。
最终T回绝了S丈夫的帮助。B发誓要欺骗警察一次，S和丈夫分手，希望T能够帮助S挽回她的丈夫，T答应了，因为他想S幸福。S鼓励T，他一定会幸福。L回归。
24 T开始设计自己的第一件作品，牛仔帽房子。T鼓励B向R表白，M再次组织T的生日聚会，R首先向B表白，出乎B的意料，但是B居然拒绝了。T和山羊开始较劲，R其实早先知道B喜欢她，让R很困扰，所以自己先下手为强，先表白，让B退缩。B&R开始真实的面对彼此。T的设计再次黄了，L建议T问问自己是否该换个方向。大家都意识到了生活的勇气是多么重要。T转行当大学老师。
3 ) 四季剧情中四段感情的不同小结尾总结
HIMYM前两季的最后一集，可以说构成了双重回环结构。
第一季最后一集，Ted和Robin终于走到了一起，却看到Marshall伤心地告别未婚妻Lily，分别呼应第一集Ted和Robin的暧昧相遇以及Marshall向Lily求婚成功；第二季最后一集，Ted和Robin承认分手，而这发生在Marshall和Lily的婚礼之上。
第三季最后一集，表面上看，Marshall和Lily是一对幸福夫妻，Ted和Stella订婚，一切都是最好的无人受伤的结局。实际上，第三季的最后一集，埋藏了最大的几个雷点。
第一，第三季终于回收了第一季就埋下的Barney与Robin的伏笔。而到了第三季最后一集，最为人称道的就是Barney终于确信自己爱上了Robin，以及证明自己对Ted的友情。这就正式官宣了本剧的党争——有如《白色相簿2》一般的——Ted、Robin、Barney的三角关系。第一次，结交了最好的朋友（Marshall:?)；第一次，有了此生难忘的爱人。这两件事，交织在一起，本该带来双重的喜悦才对，可是，为什么会变成这样呢……
第二，Ted和Stella的感情，似乎在最后一集得到了升华。但是，正如前两季一样，美好的季终爱情结局都禁不住下一季的考验（aka剧情杀）。说一句不算剧透的剧透，Stella并不是The Mother，换言之并不是陪伴Ted走到任意一方人生尽头的The One。至于另一段关系，Barney和Robin的感情，在第四季也没有正式开始的迹象，自然不算是什么好的结果。
接下来开始正文部分，讨论两段感情未能成功或未能开始的原因。
我们知道，Marshall和Lily的订婚破裂，是因为二人各自的职业规划产生分歧，Lily试图重新追寻自己的艺术理想并因此离开纽约放弃感情；Ted和Robin的分手，是因为二人终于意识到彼此的婚恋观与家庭观大相径庭，Ted希望与老婆孩子一起共享都市繁华，Robin追求风风火火潇潇洒洒。总的来说，两段关系的中止，都不是因为单个人的问题，而是因为二人难以进一步磨合的问题。当这些问题不在困扰，例如其中一方放弃、或者其中一种选择因时间发展而消失。
但是Ted和Stella不同。相信大多数观众都和我以及Ted身边的主角团们一样，认为Ted和Stella进展太快，Ted基本上并不十分了解Stella。而这种短时间的快餐式的浪漫，正如二分钟约会一样，并不能长期支撑一段关系修成正果。人际关系，乃至爱情与婚姻，一般而言，都需要长时间的了解（例如Ted和Robin也是过了一年左右才确定关系）与彼此的牺牲与让步。如果说上一段主要是后者出问题的话，这一组关系则是连最基础的了解都不够格，属于人本身就有很多很多的问题。至于后者，Stella一定要建筑师Ted搬到相对乡村的新泽西，却愿意自己和复合的Tony住在纽约市中心，一切尽在不言中。正是因为二人本就有问题，此后也再也没有情感上的藕断丝连。退一步，就算二人当日成功结婚，难道Stella真的能一辈子都不见孩子他爸Tony吗？那么结局恐怕还是一样的。
Barney未能和Robin开始，也是如此。阻碍他做出行动的，固然有朋友关系的现实，但有Ted和Robin珠玉在前，以及二人的性关系在前，这根本就不是一个理由。就第四季剧情来看，归根结底，一是他的精神世界还没有完全确立信奉爱情与实践爱意的信念，二是他的物质世界还没有完全摆脱“一夜情”的生活方式。Ted和Stella的烂尾，主要是因为Stella人不对，而Ted被爱情所蒙蔽没有正视这一点；Barney和Robin的烂头，主要是因为Barney人不对，而他自己依赖于既有路线与现实没有改变这一点。
当我们认识到这一点，我相信，我们对HIMYM的理解和对爱情的认识就可以提到一个新的高度。从片名中也可以看到，HIMYM讲的是一个How I Met Your Mother的故事，也就是如何穿过种种情史与命中注定走到一起的故事。但从本文对前四季的这四段关系中的反思中，我们可以知道，The One固然重要，固然美好，但这个路上有很多阻碍。互有好感不难，甚至互相深爱、长久纠缠都不难，难的是双方在关系中各自做出一些牺牲与让步，共同探索有共识的工作生活未来式；难的是冷静认识对方，坚定改造自己，让对方是正确的人、更让自己是正确的人。前者尚有回旋的余地，毕竟在这个变化很快的功利物欲的现实世界，维持感情上的连结比维持自己可能过于理想化的追求要容易许多；但后者则是相识相知相爱的基础性的工作，不能指望有什么“奇迹”。
Meet the One，也许对方是自在的，但这个过程毫无疑问是自为的。
4 ) 继续卖关子好了
这部美剧看起来速度哈快，不知不觉竟然我都看到第五季了……不能说每一集都很搞笑，但有几集真的是很经典，也算是伴我度过了无数个无聊的夜晚吧……
最喜欢的还是Barney吧，坏男人果然就是讨人喜欢啊，as long as he is not my boyfriend... Ted也蛮搞笑的，呆呆的。但最呆的还是Marshall，感觉他超级适合演这种块头很大但内心纯真的角色，特别搞笑。两个女主角相比下还是有些逊色，找不到《老友记》里三个女主角的那种搞笑感觉，没觉得特别适合演喜剧……
最后作为第四季还在卖弄甚至调戏观众还不揭开“究竟谁才是孩子他妈”的一部电视剧，我觉得除非孩子他妈是Robin，否则这部戏真的偏题偏得可以……所以最后我还是“大胆”地预测Ted会和Robin在一起，虽然好像有点明显……
最喜欢的还是Barney吧，坏男人果然就是讨人喜欢啊，as long as he is not my boyfriend... Ted也蛮搞笑的，呆呆的。但最呆的还是Marshall，感觉他超级适合演这种块头很大但内心纯真的角色，特别搞笑。两个女主角相比下还是有些逊色，找不到《老友记》里三个女主角的那种搞笑感觉，没觉得特别适合演喜剧……
最后作为第四季还在卖弄甚至调戏观众还不揭开“究竟谁才是孩子他妈”的一部电视剧，我觉得除非孩子他妈是Robin，否则这部戏真的偏题偏得可以……所以最后我还是“大胆”地预测Ted会和Robin在一起，虽然好像有点明显……
5 ) 遭遇错的才能和对的相逢
谁都会在人生遇到那样的一个阶段：事业不如意，爱情遭遇危机，做啥啥不顺。自觉人生已经跌入谷底，殊不知，le pire est à venir.
这一季的Ted就是面对着这样一种境遇：走上圣坛前几分钟被甩、被炒鱿鱼、还被一只母山羊海扁一顿...似乎所有的坏运气都到了他这一边，没有最倒霉，只有更倒霉。
但对于这一切飞来的“横祸”，当事人除了去承受（just live it），事实上也没有更多其它的选择。因为有些时候，那些糟糕的事情不是你凭意志就可以阻挡得了。
年纪渐渐变大，便逐渐习惯于用一种宿命的眼光去看待周围发生的一切事物。常常觉得，即便是那些最糟糕的事情，它的发生也是冥冥之中有所安排的。如果不是因为Robin在吃坏了肚子在节目上呕吐、Ted就不会选择去别家买bagel，如果不是因为Marshall的那些破表格，Ted就不会在那个叫花子的面前多耽搁那么一会儿、就不会再次遇见Stella、也不会获得Tony提供的教书offer，也不会后来遇见那个大家翘首以盼的“mother”。
有时候也会用这样的角度去审视自己的人生。譬如在回顾与某童鞋相遇过程的时候，会想到：如果不是某次考试失败，就不会回到某个地方，也就不会遇见张三，而不遇见张三，就断然不会遇到后来的李四。而这个局面，如果再顺藤摸瓜往前推算，还应当感谢王二当年果断的离开......
因此，常常会想，那一切错误的、失败的、悲伤的、灾难的、毁灭性的(总之就是一切你能想到的贬义词...)事情之所以发生，是否就是为了把你引导向一个正确的结果？生命中那些所谓的“偶然”、“机缘巧合”，从宏观的局面去看，谁又能说它们就不是一种“必然”？
梁静茹唱到“挥别错的才能和对的相逢”，但我觉得更重要的是，只有“遭遇”了错的，才有可能“挥别”错的（当然了，不排除少数执迷不悟还“陷落”在错的当中难以自拔、不肯走出的情况）。归根结底，遇见“错的”或许不是坏事——或许，这“错的”恰巧正是通向“对的”开端？
或许此刻的我们都面临和Ted一样的问题，无法得知现在身边的李四是否就是那个真正的“the one”。如果他是，当然要恭喜。但倘若他不是，谁又会知道，当李四真的离开了，那个真正的“the one”不会在街角处等着你呢?
关于本剧，个人觉得笑点和亮点没有前面几季多，以至于追剧的速度和动力都大不如以往。不过本季最后两集依然精彩。另外，令人欣慰的是，Robin和Barney终于愿意正视自己的感情了。
这一季的Ted就是面对着这样一种境遇：走上圣坛前几分钟被甩、被炒鱿鱼、还被一只母山羊海扁一顿...似乎所有的坏运气都到了他这一边，没有最倒霉，只有更倒霉。
但对于这一切飞来的“横祸”，当事人除了去承受（just live it），事实上也没有更多其它的选择。因为有些时候，那些糟糕的事情不是你凭意志就可以阻挡得了。
年纪渐渐变大，便逐渐习惯于用一种宿命的眼光去看待周围发生的一切事物。常常觉得，即便是那些最糟糕的事情，它的发生也是冥冥之中有所安排的。如果不是因为Robin在吃坏了肚子在节目上呕吐、Ted就不会选择去别家买bagel，如果不是因为Marshall的那些破表格，Ted就不会在那个叫花子的面前多耽搁那么一会儿、就不会再次遇见Stella、也不会获得Tony提供的教书offer，也不会后来遇见那个大家翘首以盼的“mother”。
有时候也会用这样的角度去审视自己的人生。譬如在回顾与某童鞋相遇过程的时候，会想到：如果不是某次考试失败，就不会回到某个地方，也就不会遇见张三，而不遇见张三，就断然不会遇到后来的李四。而这个局面，如果再顺藤摸瓜往前推算，还应当感谢王二当年果断的离开......
因此，常常会想，那一切错误的、失败的、悲伤的、灾难的、毁灭性的(总之就是一切你能想到的贬义词...)事情之所以发生，是否就是为了把你引导向一个正确的结果？生命中那些所谓的“偶然”、“机缘巧合”，从宏观的局面去看，谁又能说它们就不是一种“必然”？
梁静茹唱到“挥别错的才能和对的相逢”，但我觉得更重要的是，只有“遭遇”了错的，才有可能“挥别”错的（当然了，不排除少数执迷不悟还“陷落”在错的当中难以自拔、不肯走出的情况）。归根结底，遇见“错的”或许不是坏事——或许，这“错的”恰巧正是通向“对的”开端？
或许此刻的我们都面临和Ted一样的问题，无法得知现在身边的李四是否就是那个真正的“the one”。如果他是，当然要恭喜。但倘若他不是，谁又会知道，当李四真的离开了，那个真正的“the one”不会在街角处等着你呢?
关于本剧，个人觉得笑点和亮点没有前面几季多，以至于追剧的速度和动力都大不如以往。不过本季最后两集依然精彩。另外，令人欣慰的是，Robin和Barney终于愿意正视自己的感情了。
6 ) 24集喜欢的台词
How I Met Your Mother S04E24:
(Lily): Architecture is killing you,Ted,and it's killing us to watch it killing you. You're like that goat with the washcloth. You want it so bad,and every time the world tries to take it away from you,you keep grabbing it.But you know what? It's just a washcloth. Why do you even want it?
(Ted): Because I... I have to be an architect. That's...that's the plan.
(Lily): Screw the plan. I planned on being a famous artist. Marshall planned on being an environmental lawyer. Robin planned on being a TV reporter.Barney planned on being a violinist. Look,you can't design your life like a building.It doesn't work that way.You just have to live it,and it will design itself.
(Ted): So,what,I should just do nothing?
(Lily): No. Listen to what the world is telling you to do and take the leap.
Ted:
That was the year I got left at the altar.
It was the year I got knocked out by a crazy bartender.
The year I got fired.
The year I got beat up by a goat. A girl goat,at that.
And damn it if it wasn't the best year of my life.
Because,if any one of those things hadn't happened,
I never would have ended up in a which turned out to be the best job I ever had.
But more importantly,I wouldn't have met your mother.
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That is life and that's why I love this TV so much, it tells you stories about truly committed friends while revealing the truth of life with graceful smile
(Lily): Architecture is killing you,Ted,and it's killing us to watch it killing you. You're like that goat with the washcloth. You want it so bad,and every time the world tries to take it away from you,you keep grabbing it.But you know what? It's just a washcloth. Why do you even want it?
(Ted): Because I... I have to be an architect. That's...that's the plan.
(Lily): Screw the plan. I planned on being a famous artist. Marshall planned on being an environmental lawyer. Robin planned on being a TV reporter.Barney planned on being a violinist. Look,you can't design your life like a building.It doesn't work that way.You just have to live it,and it will design itself.
(Ted): So,what,I should just do nothing?
(Lily): No. Listen to what the world is telling you to do and take the leap.
Ted:
That was the year I got left at the altar.
It was the year I got knocked out by a crazy bartender.
The year I got fired.
The year I got beat up by a goat. A girl goat,at that.
And damn it if it wasn't the best year of my life.
Because,if any one of those things hadn't happened,
I never would have ended up in a which turned out to be the best job I ever had.
But more importantly,I wouldn't have met your mother.
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That is life and that's why I love this TV so much, it tells you stories about truly committed friends while revealing the truth of life with graceful smile
7 ) Why do I love Barney Stinson? – For HIMYM Fans
By Defay
I have been watching How I Met Your Mother recently. I love it so much that I spent an entire weekend watching it non-stop. The show is really hilarious yet full of wisdom. Despite how insane and exaggerate the stories the narrator tells are, he really tries to teach some lessons here.
An interesting thing that I have to mention about this show is that at first I think Barney Stinson stinks, but gradually I fell in love with this character. Okay, "fall in love" might be too strong a word but it's true that Barney Stinson, the character along with the actor who plays it, is becoming my new favorite. I myself felt very confused sometimes, as Barney is not supposed to be liked by so many people, especially by me. He is a total liar and playboy who does not care about other people's feelings. He is conceited and selfish, greedy and arrogant. And above all, he is frivolous.
Yet I was deeply touched by Barney three times by the end of season 4.
The first time was when Marshall and Lily break their engagement, Barney lures women away from Marshall so that he can remain faithful to the woman he truly loves. It is later revealed by Lily that it was Barney who convinced Lily to come back to New York, even buying her a plane ticket home.
The second time was when Barney was secretly in love with Robin, he acted like a baby. He did everything he could to help Robin, especially that time when Robin accidently quit her job and might be expelled from USA. Barney wants Robin to be around him so much that he helped Robin to make a video tape as a resume to find jobs. Later during video shooting Robin was irritated by his ideas and he finished her e-resume alone by himself. Eventually he succeeded in finding Robin a job and kept her in the group.
The third time was when he heard that Ted was hit by a car and was in hospital. He did not hesitate even for a second and rushed to hospital. When he found he could not get a cab, he ran on foot to hospital. Just as he was a street-across away from the hospital, he was too tired and did not notice a fast-driving bus that he himself was hit by it and badly injured.
See why they still hang out with him? Everyone in the gang owes to Barney.
Put aside his personal life, Barney does have very special and sparkling aspects in his personality that are so rare and precious that it is very hard to find them in a human being.
First of all, he is rational. Recall that he is always keen to experiment on all kinds of tricks to hit on girls to test which ones of them actually work. No matter how many times he fails, he just keeps on trying till he reached a scientific statistical conclusion. That's right. 83%. That number applies to everything.
Secondly of all, he challenges himself all the time. "Challenge accepted" even if for most of the time, nobody challenges him. He just enjoys it, setting goals, thinking up strategies, taking actions, and eventually, achieving goals, which is closely related to another big merit of his, persistence.
Third of all, he is persistent. Recall that once he raised his right hand to high five but nobody responded him. He raised his hand till someone slapped him five. Barney is so driven to succeed, he will do whatever it takes to get what he wants, including lie, cheat or bribe his friends. If he's trying to get a hot girl, he might even pretend to be an astronaut or a taxi driver. Barney will talk trash, or even tell the truth if that's what it takes. He always gets what he wants. You have to admire drive and determination like that.
Fourth of all, he is audacious and passionate. We always see him running to do things. He never hesitates. When he wants to do something, he does it, immediately, or over a shockingly long period of time, secretly plotting. Of course, we should exclude the circumstances when he was deeply in love with Robin, which weakened his ability to make resolute decisions. His love for Robin actually completes him as a human being. We can see him as vulnerable, soft and caring as any man in love can be. We can see he has a breakable heart just like everybody else.
Fifth of all, we know that he is confident for sure, but sometimes he is peculiarly calm. Once, a big merger in the company Barney works in fell through and Barney was getting blamed for it. Marshall overheard that Barney might be fired. Everyone is worried except himself. Or at least he acted like he is not worried at all. He launched his project of "Perfect Week", e.g., sleeping with seven women in seven days without a single rejection, to deal with the stress. On the next Monday, Barney keeps his job. And his boss says it must have been a stressful time for him. "I barely slept," Barney winked.
Last but not least, he keeps rules. Despite the crazy and maniac ideas and actions, Barney keeps rules, except those rules are written by no man but himself. Still, he lives to it, devotedly. His Crazy/Hot Scale, Platinum Rule and Lemon Law are just a few of his dating guidelines. He has rules to govern his professional life. (Actually doing things gets you fired.) He updated the definition of cheating. (It's not cheating if you're not married, if the girl has two consecutive vowels in her name or if she lives in a different area code.) But his rules governing bro-to-bro relationships were so important he published them in a book called "The Bro Code."
Just think of having a friend like him around you. You can laugh at him every day because he is mentally strong enough to keep your unintentionally hurtful words from actually hurting him. Yet he brings you all these novel and original stories and ideas and other things that you've never heard of every day, to share with you or to brag about. He urges you to do crazy things you've never done in your entire life. It's so not boring when you are with him. Suit up! Phone five! It's gonna be Legen-wait for it-dary! I'm awesome! There are so many amazing and amusing or even annoying things he talks about. If you don't hear him say for one day, you will even feel something is missing in your life.
I think the most important reason is that, even though Barney is a playboy, he only hits on bimbos. And only bimbos buy into his lies and acts. Girls clever as Robin or Nora would not be easily seduced to his moves. He knows it and he tried even harder to prove to everyone that when Barney Stinson is not a jackass, he could really be a dreamy boyfriend that every woman would want. He is always handsome, wears a suit every day, even in his sleep (he wears a suit-jamas at bedtime) and he is clever and wealthy. Nothing can stop him.
BTW, the actor who plays Barney Stinson is actually gay. Heart-broken, huh? Still, I admire his exquisite acting skills, as well as his magic tricks, acrobatics and singing performances.
I have been watching How I Met Your Mother recently. I love it so much that I spent an entire weekend watching it non-stop. The show is really hilarious yet full of wisdom. Despite how insane and exaggerate the stories the narrator tells are, he really tries to teach some lessons here.
An interesting thing that I have to mention about this show is that at first I think Barney Stinson stinks, but gradually I fell in love with this character. Okay, "fall in love" might be too strong a word but it's true that Barney Stinson, the character along with the actor who plays it, is becoming my new favorite. I myself felt very confused sometimes, as Barney is not supposed to be liked by so many people, especially by me. He is a total liar and playboy who does not care about other people's feelings. He is conceited and selfish, greedy and arrogant. And above all, he is frivolous.
Yet I was deeply touched by Barney three times by the end of season 4.
The first time was when Marshall and Lily break their engagement, Barney lures women away from Marshall so that he can remain faithful to the woman he truly loves. It is later revealed by Lily that it was Barney who convinced Lily to come back to New York, even buying her a plane ticket home.
The second time was when Barney was secretly in love with Robin, he acted like a baby. He did everything he could to help Robin, especially that time when Robin accidently quit her job and might be expelled from USA. Barney wants Robin to be around him so much that he helped Robin to make a video tape as a resume to find jobs. Later during video shooting Robin was irritated by his ideas and he finished her e-resume alone by himself. Eventually he succeeded in finding Robin a job and kept her in the group.
The third time was when he heard that Ted was hit by a car and was in hospital. He did not hesitate even for a second and rushed to hospital. When he found he could not get a cab, he ran on foot to hospital. Just as he was a street-across away from the hospital, he was too tired and did not notice a fast-driving bus that he himself was hit by it and badly injured.
See why they still hang out with him? Everyone in the gang owes to Barney.
Put aside his personal life, Barney does have very special and sparkling aspects in his personality that are so rare and precious that it is very hard to find them in a human being.
First of all, he is rational. Recall that he is always keen to experiment on all kinds of tricks to hit on girls to test which ones of them actually work. No matter how many times he fails, he just keeps on trying till he reached a scientific statistical conclusion. That's right. 83%. That number applies to everything.
Secondly of all, he challenges himself all the time. "Challenge accepted" even if for most of the time, nobody challenges him. He just enjoys it, setting goals, thinking up strategies, taking actions, and eventually, achieving goals, which is closely related to another big merit of his, persistence.
Third of all, he is persistent. Recall that once he raised his right hand to high five but nobody responded him. He raised his hand till someone slapped him five. Barney is so driven to succeed, he will do whatever it takes to get what he wants, including lie, cheat or bribe his friends. If he's trying to get a hot girl, he might even pretend to be an astronaut or a taxi driver. Barney will talk trash, or even tell the truth if that's what it takes. He always gets what he wants. You have to admire drive and determination like that.
Fourth of all, he is audacious and passionate. We always see him running to do things. He never hesitates. When he wants to do something, he does it, immediately, or over a shockingly long period of time, secretly plotting. Of course, we should exclude the circumstances when he was deeply in love with Robin, which weakened his ability to make resolute decisions. His love for Robin actually completes him as a human being. We can see him as vulnerable, soft and caring as any man in love can be. We can see he has a breakable heart just like everybody else.
Fifth of all, we know that he is confident for sure, but sometimes he is peculiarly calm. Once, a big merger in the company Barney works in fell through and Barney was getting blamed for it. Marshall overheard that Barney might be fired. Everyone is worried except himself. Or at least he acted like he is not worried at all. He launched his project of "Perfect Week", e.g., sleeping with seven women in seven days without a single rejection, to deal with the stress. On the next Monday, Barney keeps his job. And his boss says it must have been a stressful time for him. "I barely slept," Barney winked.
Last but not least, he keeps rules. Despite the crazy and maniac ideas and actions, Barney keeps rules, except those rules are written by no man but himself. Still, he lives to it, devotedly. His Crazy/Hot Scale, Platinum Rule and Lemon Law are just a few of his dating guidelines. He has rules to govern his professional life. (Actually doing things gets you fired.) He updated the definition of cheating. (It's not cheating if you're not married, if the girl has two consecutive vowels in her name or if she lives in a different area code.) But his rules governing bro-to-bro relationships were so important he published them in a book called "The Bro Code."
Just think of having a friend like him around you. You can laugh at him every day because he is mentally strong enough to keep your unintentionally hurtful words from actually hurting him. Yet he brings you all these novel and original stories and ideas and other things that you've never heard of every day, to share with you or to brag about. He urges you to do crazy things you've never done in your entire life. It's so not boring when you are with him. Suit up! Phone five! It's gonna be Legen-wait for it-dary! I'm awesome! There are so many amazing and amusing or even annoying things he talks about. If you don't hear him say for one day, you will even feel something is missing in your life.
I think the most important reason is that, even though Barney is a playboy, he only hits on bimbos. And only bimbos buy into his lies and acts. Girls clever as Robin or Nora would not be easily seduced to his moves. He knows it and he tried even harder to prove to everyone that when Barney Stinson is not a jackass, he could really be a dreamy boyfriend that every woman would want. He is always handsome, wears a suit every day, even in his sleep (he wears a suit-jamas at bedtime) and he is clever and wealthy. Nothing can stop him.
BTW, the actor who plays Barney Stinson is actually gay. Heart-broken, huh? Still, I admire his exquisite acting skills, as well as his magic tricks, acrobatics and singing performances.
ep13 最后接机那里!感动死了好吗!!
一再重复我的观点，即便Ted最终Met了那个Mother，他这样不停地Search的行为，还是让我很心烦。所有五星，都给Barney！
barney 和 Rabin 在一起吧.编剧不幸感染了美剧编剧们一贯的人格分裂风格
我也想吃那个汉堡了。。。
第四季看得好快啊~加油
barney啊，你看似WS的躯壳下居然藏匿着一个如此BH的灵魂,雷神见了都得敬畏三分。。90°景仰。。。
第五季我来了！！！！！
淡定了，还是好好看!
老妈从第一季开始补，已经快赶超我了
从来没有想过自己会看情景喜剧。可能这是唯一一部。
本季第13集可能是我的整个看美剧史上哭的最热烈的一次，简直感动到天崩地裂。从此估计每听到一次《友谊地久天长》都会感动吧。上一次差不多的感动还是看《摩登家庭》母亲节（S2E21）那一集....说不下去了，我要跑去哭泣了Q.Q
Marshall在与Lily结婚的誓词中说，他爱Lily，不仅因为他作为爱人爱她，更因为，他们是最好的朋友。
不错接着赞
Ted的洒脱，Robin的叛逆，Barney的幽默，还有Lily和Marshall的单纯，陪我走过了这么多年……
晚上继续补第五季~走你～～～
至今为止最喜欢的一季，许多单集非常赞，比如接机那集玩的时空错位，但更主要的原因大概是每次看到Barney死撑着不说Robin走了之后又那么失落的样子就很难过。
哦巴尼~
每次总是很感动。
每一集都笑得脸酸……谁说越来越不好看的？
stalla这种女人实在是太讨厌了，还有她老公，你们怎么会原谅她的？